It’s taken me 31 years to finally get to a point were I am happy (most of the time!) about my body, its not perfect I have wobbly bits I have stretch marks and dimples but when I sit and think of everything it’s gone threw its bloody amazing and no longer will I be ashamed of it.
Every social media platform, magazine, TV show god even porn woman have to look a certain way
A tiny dress size but needs to also have big boobs and an arse
Hair free cause god forbid we have any hair other than are heads
Perfect make up and hair
All this to be popular get all the likes and followers and all that other bullshit!
There is constant pressure on females to be this idea of perfection and I hate it, we should be celebrated no matter what we look like because let’s face it woman are fucking amazing!!! š
It shouldn’t matter if you’re a size 8 or a size 28 what’s a dress size got to do with a person but we’re obsessed with the toxic world of social media we’re everyone filters and photoshops the shit out of everything and we’re convinced this is how we should look even tho the person in the picture don’t even look like that themselves in real life.
I honestly would hate to be a teenager now where your at that stage were your hormones are going mental and your under so much pressure about everything then to have all this shit on social media to contend with too! I’m super grateful social media wasn’t around when I was a teenager because I honestly believe i would have been pushed to do something silly.
I’ve struggled with my body for years I’ve put it threw so much shit to try and fit in when I was obviously born to stand out! š
I’ve denied myself food, I’ve made myself sick after eating because I felt guilty for eating because I was hungry, I’ve taken drugs because they stopped my appetite (sorry mum š„“) I’ve tore myself apart and let guys tell me I’m getting fat etc and just agreed instead of telling them to go fuck themselves š
I’ve been a size 8
And I’ve been a size 22
I’m guilty of using filters on pictures to hide a chin or bad skin but you know what fuck that shit!!!
I’m Sarah Jayne I’m a size 20 I’ve got 2 ok 3 Chins when I look down my boobs get in the way and rest on my tummy when I’ve got no bra on and I’m sat down, my tummy is like a spare tyre it’s covered in stretch marks and wobbles like a jelly and I haven’t got a thigh gap they’re chunky and I get chub rub if I wear a skirt or dress but you know what I FUCKING LOVE IT ALL!!! ā¤ļøā¤ļø
My body deserves to be loved its gone threw Alot! Eating problems, three pregnancies 2 full term and one that wasn’t meant to be, sickness and stress and its still going so it might not be perfect, it might not conform to people’s ideas of beauty but fuck it I don’t care no more!!
Nobody is perfect so instead of ripping each other apart for being to skinny to fat etc let’s build each other up and look after each other, let’s give a big old middle finger to social media perfect pictures and not worry about what others think as long as you’re happy with yourself that’s all that matters don’t ever let anyone dull your shine and make you feel like your not worthy!!
Life is to short fucking enjoy it and don’t let anyone or anything make you feel like your not special or fucking amazing ok!!!
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